Most elders plan to continue living in the home where they raised their family, known today as aging in place. Maintaining such independence works best when the home has been modified, preferably using universal design principles. Normal changes as we age create vision and balance challenges which can be minimized through an assessment of environmental barriers to safe aging.

Over time, a circle of friends may shrink, and neighbors who have been longtime friends may transition out of the neighborhood. Loved ones generally adapt, until a time comes when they can no longer drive, creating loneliness due to the inability to socialize without transportation. This may be the time to consider a change.

Over half of assisted living residents in Massachusetts are aged 85 and over. Some move due to a decline in health, or when household chores, home maintenance, shopping, and cooking become too challenging.  Participating in social activities may become more difficult to accomplish.  Still, reaching a decision to move is complex and emotional.  It’s difficult to leave a home full of memories.

While we are proponents of living independently at home while healthy for as long as practicable and desirable, a time may come when moving to a residential community will be of greater benefit. Many elders thrive in an atmosphere with easy assess to socialization, where daily choices in activities create opportunities to develop new friendships.

While considering such a move, an independent professional in aging transitions, unaffiliated financially with assisted living or home care companies, can advise you about the expenses and other challenges that may be incurred if and when your health declines.